How To Use Your Power As A Woman
Women have the power to influence men and situations around them. They can achieve this using their beauty, skills, sexuality, character, loyalty, intelligence and charm. Women have been used to set traps for indomitable and matchless heros like Samson in the Bible according to the book of Judges. He was a mighty and stoic warrior. The thought of him sends cold sweats down his enemies' spines. He was widely celebrated and feared but was captured by a woman who ordinarily cannot stand his greatness. King David, the man after God's own heart could not resist a woman. He forgot who he was and what he represents at the sight of a naked woman. King Solomon had hundreds of wives and concubines yet could not withstand the charm and personality of the Shulamite woman. The Great Adolf Hitler, a German politician and leader of the Nazi Party, a resounding historic figure, the man behind the murder of six million Jews suddenly became fond of a Jewish little girl Rosa Bernile Nienau. His genuine affinity for the young girl amazed everyone, a notorious hater of the Jews suddenly protecting a Jew. She was called Hitler's sweetheart. The great Hitler cherished his friendship with the little girl. She puts smiles on his serious face.
Love according to Paulo Coelho "is an untamed force. When we try to control it, it destroys us. When we try to imprison it, it enslaves us. When we try to understand it, it leaves us feeling lost and confused". Some of the great and respected men in our society today dance to the tunes of ordinary women even prostitutes. They readily obey the commands of these women especially when it's conditional.
The power of a woman lies in her submission and loyalty to her man. Submission is service not slavery. It is not weakness but is a great strength. When a woman submits to her man, it will increase her respect before him. You can easily find favor in the eyes of your boss or people around when you are loyal. Most times it takes stooping to conquer. Men are bossy and egoistic in nature, and therefore hate women that treat them in ways that diminish their egos or make them feel inadequate.
Some women indirectly manipulate their husbands but with wisdom. It is with a smooth tongue that the snail sails through the thorns. No matter how hardened a man is, a woman with his password can live happily and peacefully with him.
Oscar Wilde once said that "You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their posh car, but because they sing a song only you can hear". That song is the password. The password that she alone knows how to use. With the use of the password the man becomes accessible, enjoyable, gullible and even controllable.
An adage says that a gentle-voiced wife cheats her husband. Men distaste loud-voiced woman. Gentility is not cowardice. It is a great strength. Good men love happy and peaceful homes. Once a woman is capable of making a man happy and feel peaceful, she has automatically become an angel irrespective of her physical appearance.
Every seemingly ugly woman has something beautiful about her.
The power of a woman also lies in her knowledge, wisdom and intelligence. A woman should seek knowledge, read books, chase positive innovations and become versatile. Be that woman that has an idea about business, farming, cooking, politics, government, sports, entertainment and virtually everything. You need ideas to build your home, to raise your children, to achieve your dreams and to be that helpmate God mandated you to be. Let people seek you because of what you can offer not because they want to use you.
The Power of a woman is evident in her skills. What can you do? What solution can you bring? What problem can you solve? Are you satisfied with just being a wife and mother when others are CEOs and Directors of companies and organizations, yet great wives and mothers. Every woman needs a skill. Your cooking skills can be an irresistible attraction. Your digital or conventional skills can open chapters of opportunities for you as a woman. No woman is permitted to be a liability in this age. Be a problem solver. Women are becoming more. If you don't have a skill, get one, you will need it now or later.
The Power of a woman is perfected in her character, charm and personality. What is your strength and what is your weakness?. Your character can make you powerful, sought after and appealing. Your attitude and lifestyle can be more eloquent than your voice. There is a lot of strength and power in a distinguished character. Your refusal to do the wrong things may cost you material things momentarily but sticking to a life of virtue pays greater dividends. Your charm, smiles, beautiful features, dress sense, sensibility and lovable personality can open doors that your certificates can't.
Do not use your physical beauty for ashes. You are worth more than few minutes pleasure. You are worth more than being a secret. You should not only have your body to offer. Your power does not lie in-between your legs. It lies in the strength of your character. Use your power to touch lives, bring solutions and contribute meaningfully to the society. Don't use your sexuality to break homes, maim lives and betray trusts.